There is nothing worse than being pregnant around people who don’t know how to properly interact with you.
Believe me, I am learning this the hard way right now. Everywhere I go there are people who treat me like a stray kitten simply because I am pregnant. They see me and immediately are concerned about my well-being, wanting to know how I’m eating and commenting on how small I am compared to the other kittens. They reach out to try to rub my belly. And then they try to take me home. (Just kidding about that last one.) Read more
To all the lonely girls out there – you may be lonely, but you are not alone in feeling that way.
We all love the idea of love. Despite how bitter some of us come across, deep down we all just want to be loved by someone. And that’s okay. Here are some other reminders of things you should always keep in mind when you are feeling the loneliness kick in. Read more
I take pride in being independent enough to fend for myself.
My lifestyle may be less financially secure than others, but I’m comfortable for now. I have more clothes than I need, food in my stomach, and a warm bed waiting for me at night. The rest is just excess. Read more
The earliest memory I have is of the day you left. I was four.
It was nearly five years later before I saw you again. You never stayed long on the days you did show up. I don’t remember many of those days. But I do remember the days you weren’t there. Read more
Admit it – you cyber stalked the hell out of your ex and his new girlfriend as soon as you saw his Facebook relationship status change.
We all do it because we’re curious creatures. And we often do it to talk shit about how his new girl is a downgrade from us, because it makes us feel better. But the truth is, hating her isn’t doing anyone any favors.
Don’t be angry at his new girlfriend for choosing to love him.
And don’t make snide remarks about her physical appearance out of spite. Don’t hate her for simply trying to be happy with the guy who you were once happy with. And don’t blame her for your failed relationship or heartbreak. Act like the confident woman that you are, and move on to better things in life. Read more
I debated whether or not to write this for two reasons:
(1) even though you seem to think I like everyone to know all of my personal business, I actually prefer my present romantic interests to remain private because I always jinx things if I talk about them too soon.
(2) I respect you and your privacy, and don’t like to overshare about someone who isn’t comfortable being involved in my writing. Read more
You aren’t going to break my best friend’s heart.
She’s told me every detail of your relationship. Or rather, your non-relationship, since you never were man enough to admit that’s what it is. Well, was. Read more
It’s that time of the year when stores fill every inch of window space with heart decals and put as much pink and red on display as possible. For single girls, this can be disheartening – they think about the chocolates and flowers they won’t be getting from a special someone. But for the girls who have a guy in their life, they know the single girls have it easy because they don’t have to worry about finding a gift that he’ll like. Read more
I’m not sure what you’ve heard about me, or even if what you’ve heard is true. I don’t know what kind of girl you think I am, or what your friends may have told you. What I do know is that whatever you think you know about me, true or not, is nowhere near as important as the things you should know. Read more