My parents will be the first to tell you I have never been that great with money management.
Keeping more than $50 in savings was always a struggle for me. When I was a teenager all of my extra money magically disappeared (I threw most of it away on body jewelry, overpriced band t-shirts, shoes, and tattoos/piercings once I turned 18), and after I reached my 20s all of my income went toward bills (living on your own is expensive when you work minimum wage jobs). By the time I was 22, I had racked up tens of thousands of dollars in student loan debt – which is still growing now that I’m back in school. On top of that, I managed to max out a couple of credit cards. Altogether, my debt totaled just under $40,000. And at 23, I took out a $16,000 loan for a new car. I never bothered to check my credit score up until then. That was last September.
There were a lot of things I would have done differently growing up, if only someone had told me these 9 things.
1. If a guy tells you he needs “time to think”, dump him.
You deserve better than someone who isn’t sure he wants to be with you. If he can’t see what he has right in front of him, then he clearly isn’t appreciating you the way that he should. You are a bad ass, independent, strong woman. Your love and loyalty holds more value than you know. Any boy who doesn’t realize how incredibly rare it is to find a girl like you, isn’t worthy of your time. Read more
There is nothing worse than being pregnant around people who don’t know how to properly interact with you.
Believe me, I am learning this the hard way right now. Everywhere I go there are people who treat me like a stray kitten simply because I am pregnant. They see me and immediately are concerned about my well-being, wanting to know how I’m eating and commenting on how small I am compared to the other kittens. They reach out to try to rub my belly. And then they try to take me home. (Just kidding about that last one.) Read more
(TW: Don’t Speak, Just Listen is a post about suicide and depression, among other sensitive topics discussed in the series 13 Reasons Why.)
At ten years old, I imagined a world without me in it for the first time.
If I didn’t show up for school, the day would carry on just like any other. If I stopped going to my classmates’ birthday parties, they wouldn’t notice I wasn’t there. And if my family didn’t have me, they wouldn’t feel the burden of my presence anymore. But as a child, I hadn’t heard of the word depression as an illness. I didn’t really understand suicide, or the fact that many of my thoughts were considered suicidal. So I didn’t reach out for help. But I didn’t make an attempt to end my life. Read more
To all the lonely girls out there – you may be lonely, but you are not alone in feeling that way.
We all love the idea of love. Despite how bitter some of us come across, deep down we all just want to be loved by someone. And that’s okay. Here are some other reminders of things you should always keep in mind when you are feeling the loneliness kick in. Read more
We all have dreamt of having a luxurious bathroom.
Large jacuzzi tub or a rainfall shower. Gorgeous tiled floor. Vanity large enough for three of you. Because why not? But when you’re on a budget (aka broke as hell and can barely afford to pay rent, let alone buy a house of that grandeur), you’re looking at a bathroom barely big enough to fit that jacuzzi tub you want so bad. And that sucks, right? But by doing any (or all!) of these five ridiculously simple ways to improve your bathroom, you can do the best with what you have – without digging into your savings account. Read more
2017 is Going Green
And I don’t mean that in an environmental way. No, 2017 is literally going green. Since Pantone named Greenery as its Color of the Year, green has impacted interior design trends across the board. From sage walls to emerald couches to excessive use of planters, this trend has certainly captured the eyes of designers around the world and is officially the #1 home design trend for 2017. Read more
I love seeing new projects and ideas for home decor.
And I’m sure you love it too, right? While there’s a ton of stuff on Pinterest – a lot of it being posts of the same designs – it’s really hard to sort through the crap and find the good stuff. So I did some digging and found the good stuff for you. Here’s the top 10 blogs you should be following right now for home decor inspiration in 2017. Read more
You know all those furniture flips you see on Pinterest and wish you had the time to do? Well I finally made time to do one of my own!
I’ve seen a few dressers re-purposed into pieces for living rooms and hallways, and it inspired me. Recently I cleared out a TON of clothes (I had two full size dressers plus a “walk-in closet” space set up in my laundry room), and it left one of my dressers empty. I considered just donating or selling it, maybe passing it on to someone I knew who needed it more than me. Then I remembered the flips I had pinned. My hand-me-down dresser was the perfect size for our living room! And what better way to get my TV off an old coffee table and reorganize our entire entertainment area that so desperately needed it? Read more
When I started blogging five or six years ago, it was entirely personal – and very egocentric. Once I outgrew the need to share every detail of my life online, I tried* to write about topics other people cared about – basically a complete 180. (*Tried but was very unsuccessful.) Last year I began to find more of a balance between the two, and in doing so I found myself trying way too hard to be like other lifestyle bloggers. But it didn’t quite fit my style, and I think that’s why I’ve struggled so much with keeping a consistent online presence. In 2017, that needs to change. Read more